MEET CHUCHA BARBER (life of abundance)

Sophisticated, stunning, classy, and confident… only begin to describe Chucha Barber. This incredible baby boomer with business acumen is the president of Chucha Barber Productions.   She has won numerous awards and recognition for her talents as a producer.  As I visited in her home recently, she spoke with deep passion about her job and so much more.

Could you tell me about what you do for a living?

       I’m a storyteller. My production company turns ideas into documentaries, videos, programs, and podcasts. We learn about significant topics and amazing people, then create ways to inform the public. I love the opportunity to capture a vision and help people understand. It can be some deeply poignant and painful truth or a topic much more lighthearted and humorous.

Which topics have really touched your heart?

       While each one is memorable, a few are important on a deeper level. One was regarding the Miami Grand Prix and another was the truth about oysters and their impact on the environment.  We also worked with Lauren’s Kids Foundation to shed light on various forms of child abuse. My most personal project is still in the works. It is about my father. He was the first Latin-American editor at the Miami Herald and had unique interactions with Fidel Castro.

How do you unwind and relieve stress when not working?

       Finding the right balance between work, nutrition, exercise, and rest is the key. I love to cook and to garden. Or enjoy quiet time with nature. Food, art, and music are all dear to me.

Could you say a bit more about that?

       I’ve loved music since my youth. Later I served as a museum director and came to appreciate art. Every piece in my home has a wonderful story to go with it. Now food made with loving hands is beautiful, no matter how simple or complex. A loaf of bread is a feast for the senses. Shredded hearts of palm from the Amazon rainforest is one of the most delicious and memorable dishes ever.

I have a lot of gratitude, which is why I continue to live a life of abundance.

What’s the most fun thing you’ve ever done?

       Marry my husband! He’s my best friend and we have a huge crazy family of many shades and colors. We are a big happy variety and lucky to all love each other.

How do you feel about Tallahassee and about travel?

       This part of northern Florida is beautiful because of all the canopy roads, springs, and trails. Everything grows well in the soil here, flowers, vegetables, herbs, and orchards. I’m grateful to have traveled many places. I look forward to going back to Los Angeles and also plan to some day visit Norway.

Any advice on how people should treat one another?

       People need to maintain respect and a sense of humor in order to promote healthy dialogue. We all need to focus on the present instead of the past. We just need to learn how to listen to one another.

What makes you an exuberant person?

       It comes back to my high energy and finding a balance in all I do. I have a lot of gratitude, which is why I continue to live a life of abundance. There are always reasons to be joyful.

What would you like to say to the world?

       The most important human organ is the heart, which allows us to love others. Some people focus too much on the skin and color. Choose to be fully alive as long as your heart is beating. If we love all people and choose to listen to the heart beats of others the world will truly be a much better place.

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Dang y’all!  Chucha Barber has so many great stories and great life lessons to share. Here’s hoping we all listen to others as we find that balance in our own lives.

Please leave your comments on what you loved best about this interview.

Meet Felina Martin

A leader who thrives on innovation and opportunity.

This very versatile and energetic lady has served tirelessly for the past two years as Executive Director of INIE (Institute for Nonprofit Innovation and Excellence). Somehow, she still finds the time for family, friends, and an amazing array of hobbies. She speaks with clarity and conviction about how we should confront challenges and do the required work in order to make the world what we want.

Felina Martin Exec. Dir. of INIE in Tallahassee, FL

Felina, please explain your work at INIE.

       I work with charitable organizations to help them succeed in helping others. Through education, advocacy, direct communication, and lots of virtual meetings, I sometimes save them from closing their doors. It is so rewarding and inspiring to connect innovators with each other and to watch them succeed.

What do you like the most about Tallahassee?

       The natural beauty here is so evident at every turn. It is in parks, trails, trees, and landscapes. There is a wonderful Southern charm among the locals and the college students add another great dimension to the environment.

Take the opportunity to travel when it is safe again.

What are some of your thoughts on travel?

       Two of the best places I’ve been were the cities of Cape Town and Johannesburg in South Africa. A place that I really hope to visit in the future is Egypt. I would encourage people to take the opportunity to travel (after the pandemic) when it is safe again.

What is the most fun thing you have done lately?

       I’ve been taking flying lessons and recently flew a plane around the St. Augustine area for forty-five minutes. The young flying instructor really helped make it so much fun.

Can you share a little about your passions and hobbies?

       The most relaxing things for me are meditation, yoga, or a great comedy show that makes me just fall out laughing. I’m eclectic regarding art and creativity; I write poetry, sew, draw, and create with polymer clay. I can also appreciate the artistry of a pretty pizza or a beautiful plating of vanilla bean ice cream.

What makes you an exuberant person?

       Opportunity! Taking the opportunity to create new things. Or the opportunity to really listen as my son shares his dreams with me. Or the opportunity to respect myself and renew my energy with a long drive and some fresh air.

Do you have a message for the world?

       Yes! Live your life to the fullest. That is your opportunity to leave your mark and make a difference.

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Dang y’all, don’t you just want to give her a big hug? Felina is certainly a captivating conversationalist. I hope y’all were inspired enough to look for new opportunities to be innovative.  Please be kind by sharing your thoughts with me.

Meet Mike Goldstein of Tallahassee, FL

“Hey, I’m Mike Goldstein.”

Fun-loving Community Advocate with a Heart of Gold

On a sweltering July afternoon, Mike Goldstein is completely comfortable as we sit by the fountain at Kleman Plaza. His red T-shirt reads “Are you bike curious?” with the hashtag justkeeppedaling referring to his business Capital City Pedicabs.

This boyish-looking man somehow reminds me of Peter Pan and may be of slight build, but his social stature is enormously impressive. Mike is respected by students, stars, and prominent political and business leaders of Tallahassee. He is a business owner, graphic designer, gamer, writer, and autograph collector.

Mike, tell me a little bit about your job.

       I own Tallahassee’s first pedicab business. We offer eco-friendly and affordable rides on our three-wheeled bikes that can hold up to four passengers. We know the best places, events, and the best ways to get there. As owner and one of the drivers, I get to see the best of Tallahassee on three wheels.

What else do you love about Tallahassee?

       Great football, great politics, and so much more. We have amazing places to see all year round.

Mike at Kleman Plaza in Tallahassee, FL

What do you enjoy doing for fun and relaxation?

       I love rocking out to music to get my creative juices flowing. Hitting up a karaoke night at a local bar, meeting celebrities at a comic con, or hanging out at afterhours events.

What makes you an exuberant person?

       I am a people connector and master networker. If I don’t know someone, I will very soon. And I will help them connect with others by the end of an event. I encourage everyone to get out, explore Tallahassee and be sure to support local businesses.

Any other places you’d like to see?

       I would like to revisit Los Angeles and maybe go see New Zealand.

Anything else you’d care to share?

       Be positive, be kind. Remember…just keep pedaling and everything will be alright.

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This is the very essence of the true Mike Goldstein. He is all about finding joy in fun and games. He is all about exploring the neighborhoods and encouraging the business owners of his Tallahassee, Florida, hometown. He is all about bringing people together and bringing out the best in everyone he meets. He is a fun-loving community advocate with a heart of gold.

“A Chasing of the Wind” (book review)

Book Review (because reading is a great thing to do)

“A Chasing of the Wind” by Anthony W. Kalberg

This delightful historical fiction novel is loosely based on several true events which happened on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. It takes place between 1938 and 1959.

The primary character is Cooper Austin Barnes. His school days were followed by time spent in the military. As an adult, Cooper became the Sheriff of the loveable town of Port Haven. He would eventually piece together the odd puzzle and solve the 21-year-old mystery of a scandalous local double homicide.

The novel is a pure joy to read and mentions several real events and locations on the coast. Those who are already enamored with the fabulous literary works of past Mississippi writers will certainly love this book. Others, yet unfamiliar with this part of the world, will get a unique perspective on a sprinkling of bizarre bawdiness amid tons of sweet Southern charm.

The characters seem very real. The descriptiveness is enough to make any reader want to pack a suitcase and take a coastal vacation.

From homemade pickles to a fishing rodeo to a catastrophic hurricane, DANG Y’ALL, this historical fiction truly captures the essence of a bygone era. But you will soon realize that even back then there were hidden secrets too deep and dark to mention in pleasant company.

“A Chasing of the Wind” is an excellent book that is sure to keep the reader entertained for hours.

You can order a copy from the author by sending an email to him. The email address is iougarbo@cableone.net.

Anthony W. Kalberg will soon be fulfilling his lifelong dream of directing the play “A Streetcar Named Desire”. The play will be scheduled as soon as the Covid pandemic has settled down and activities along the Mississippi coast return to somewhat normal.  When that time comes you can be sure that I will let you know.

Thanks for reading this book review. I would be THRILLED to receive YOUR comments.

Delicious brownie & a true “character” !

How to find a great yummy brownie and have an awesome conversation with a fascinating man at the same time! The answer is so simple.

Head to Darwell’s Cafe in Long Beach, Mississippi. Sit a spell with “PaPa D” as he casually and openly shares his unique ideas on everything from food to faith and from travel to trust.

Darwell’s Cafe is located at 127 East 1st Street in Long Beach and is open Wednesday through Sunday. In addition to a great conversation and a great brownie, remember to try one or more of their seafood dishes. From crab cake to crawfish, every one is so tasty.

At Darwell’s you will be entertained by various types of music nightly. Also you may be lucky enough to have PaPa D draw a caricature on your cup or play an instrument or two for you.

When you plan your next trip to the beautiful Mississippi coast, please be sure to set aside one evening for Darwell’s…real food for real people and entertainment nightly. You’ll be so glad you did.

For more info on this and other Mississippi delights, check out my article published in GoNOMAD, a great roundup about the Mississippi Coast, https://www.gonomad.com/154629-mississippis-coastal-towns.

Darwell’s https://www.restaurantji.com/ms/long-beach/darwells-cafe-/

Your new favorite restaurant experience?

As I am writing this blog post, it is May of 2020…an unusual time of what I call “pandemic panic” in the United States. Most of us have been struggling to figure out how we feel about the social distancing and mask wearing and all the other current health precautions. Now y’all may be asking yourself what that has to do with restaurants!

Well, yesterday was a day of celebration for me because it was the first time in three months that I FINALLY got to eat at a restaurant. Two of my friends and I went to a Mexican restaurant in Florida. We were thrilled to be the only customers sitting out on the patio while a few others sat inside.

The weather was perfect…the food was perfect…the adult beverage was perfect. Sharing the event with two dear friends has now become my new favorite restaurant experience. I am SO happy for this first indication that, just maybe, our country and our world is getting back to normal. Or at least heading toward a new normal.

Dang y’all, we all should give a huge shout out to thank all the food workers. They are among the many unsung heroes of this strange time we are living in right now.

So I am very curious to hear from YOU. What has been your new favorite restaurant experience recently? Did it feel totally bizarre? Did it feel exhilarating? Did it make you want to sing, or cry?

Please take a minute to let the readers know! Share your experience…as we all continue to Embrace Southern States! Thank you…and big “virtual” hugs to ALL y’all !!!

We are all recovering from something!

If you are reading my posts (and WHY wouldn’t you be), then you know I have been recovering from a broken wrist. Even though the cast is off, I still have a way to go before being “back to normal”.

Given the extraordinary events related to the Covid-19 virus I would say that we ALL seem to be recovering from stuff right now, right? Some are getting over the virus or the flu or cancer or injuries. Some are getting over the whole “social distancing” thing or the economic impact.

Dang y’all … pretty much everyone is wondering what our “new normal” will look like and what other adjustments we will have to make. Here’s a photo of what TRAVEL had looked like recently!

Lonely drives on dirt roads close to home.

Please, take a deep breath…try to be calm…let’s all do some self-care and think positive. Feel free to drop me a note to tell about YOUR best self-care method. Is it reading, cooking, mindfulness, prayer, or small acts of kindness for your neighbors? Or what?

While you’re at it, why not let me know WHERE in the 13 southern states you are itching to go! Have you been watching travel videos and planning your next adventure? I sure have! As soon as it is SAFE, I will set out to conquer my bucket list of travel destinations. And I will be sharing photos and stories with you. I hope you are excited…I sure am!

Until next time, be the best YOU possible…and Embrace Southern States.

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