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Lydia Bell & RR Square

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Ask Tallahassee locals where to find the perfect combination of local art, affordable food, and vintage goods… the answer is usually Railroad Square. Ask them to explain what the place is or who helps keep it organized… the answer is usually a blank stare. Well, the good news is that just a few months ago Lydia Bell became the Executive Director at “ACERS”, an acronym for the nonprofit organization Arts and Cultural Experiences at Railroad Square.

How do you explain your job?

   With a background as artist and small business owner, I bring needed resources to the art district to help manifest art into cultural experiences that benefit our citizens and local economy. It is exciting to share ideas and information with such a diverse group of talented artists. We all continually boost each other’s confidence and fan the flames of passion for our work. I love the trust and freedom I have been handed in this position. As a dreamer and a doer, I know now is a great time to show Tallahassee some magic while doing projects which will also highlight the true worth of these amazing artists.

Why should the general public respect what Railroad Square is all about?

   The artists and small business owners here work hard to provide goods and services to make a living doing what they love and still pay their bills. The government may think of them as common people with expensive hobbies in little stores, yet they have real power to do big and beautiful work. They also deserve big support by real patrons. They are a huge part of what draws people to Tallahassee.

What else do you love about Tallahassee?

   Tallahassee is a quirky and unique city with a deep history. We are going through changes during an interesting time, somehow Tallahassee will emerge as more progressive and positive than ever. We have beautiful variety of nature and landscapes, as well as proximity to many of Florida’s best locations.

The people of Railroad Square are diverse and talented.

How do you feel about travel?

   Travel sparks my creativity. I love to research places to visit and what to photograph and how to fit it into my schedule. I love returning to favorite California cities like San Francisco or Laguna Beach. I want to see the whole world. If I had to choose a destination right this second, I would say Rome, Italy is extremely high on my bucket list.

What other topics bring out your passion?

   The utmost would be my daughter. A fun memory is of a time I took her out of school early so we could attend a Paramore concert in Jacksonville for her birthday. I have an overwhelming passion for all art forms, which certainly includes music. I strongly believe that people need more respect of each other’s intelligence. We need to be straight with one another to have meaningful conversations on any topic without fear of confrontation or complication.

What makes you an exuberant person?

   I am resourceful, honest, and loyal. I get excited about all the friendships and opportunities here at Railroad Square. We all share enormous hope for a bright future. The work can be exhausting, yet also tremendously rewarding.

What is your message to the world?

   Above all else, the Golden Rule remains golden for a reason. Remember to always treat others the way you wish to be treated.

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Dang y’all, Lydia Bell has such enthusiasm for the Railroad Square art district and a deep commitment to making sure that “ACERS” helps achieve its true potential.

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Meet Melvin Beal: On TV and Talent

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I love connecting with people.

Some people are good at speaking in person. Others prefer to speak behind a microphone or a computer. Some people are good at being charming, funny, or heartfelt. Others make it their mission to broadcast a clear and direct message. Melvin Beal does all these things, and does them tremendously well. He uses his time and his talents to share stories of hope that could transform the world.

Could you tell me a little about your job?

   My job is to make sure people in our area can view programs on WVUP-TV. I make decisions about the quality of program content that appears on our channel, which is an affiliate of the Christian Television Network. I have a talent for expanding, enhancing, and exposing God’s kingdom through excellent content.

Nothing is too hard for God.

Would you share a bit about your background?

   A proud Tallahassee native, I grew up three blocks from FAMU. I worked in both radio and TV while at FAMU majoring in broadcast journalism. I worked in Tampa for some years. Coming back home really made me understand how deeply I love and appreciate Tallahassee.

What do you enjoy most about Tallahassee?

   We have great educational institutions with excellent sports. There are many cultural and historical sites, such as the Museum of Florida History. We have some of the most beautiful gardens and parks in the world. Cascades Park is the newest example. There is also a marvelous diversity among our people.

What travel destinations stand out to you?

   Toronto, Canada, is one of the cleanest cities I ever visited. A place that I would love to visit in the future is Alaska.

What is the most fun thing you ever did?

   Broadcasting college football games as a play-by-play announcer on ESPN was an incredibly fun and exciting opportunity that I will always cherish.

What passions and hobbies are important to you?

   I enjoy taking daily two-mile walks throughout my community. I spark my creativity through prayer and meditation. I have talent in website design and content. Food and music both play a big role in my life. But my deepest passion is being a people person.

Do you think you are a great people person?

   Absolutely, I am! My mom, who was my hero, taught me to always acknowledge and speak to people. Sharing conversation with others means connecting. Connecting leads to gaining knowledge. I believe it is vital to discuss all aspects of an issue with transparency and honesty. That leads to any needed resolutions and better understanding. My biggest strength is meeting people and engaging them in meaningful conversations.

 What makes you an exuberant person?

   My joy is anchored in my solid conviction that there is nothing too hard for God.

Do you have a message to share with the world?

   Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all of his righteousness.   

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Melvin is friendly, funny, and fascinating. He really can spend hours swapping stories with a stranger. Yet, dang y’all, the person walks away feeling like an abundantly blessed and deeply moved friend.

I hope YOU will take a moment to share your comment about this article, thank you.

Meet John Trombetta: Executive Presence

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A good leader is confident, knowledgeable, and inspiring. I call that being easy on the mind. A good leader can explain the mission of his organization with clarity and credibility. I call that being easy on the ears. A good leader will speak lovingly of his job, his wife, his dog, his hobbies, and his alma mater. I call that being easy on the heart. A good leader has features which are appealing and approachable. I call that being easy on the eyes. I am a big fan of John Trombetta, since he is the best and most shining example of a good leader on all counts.  

Serving the Big Bend area with a warm smile and deep respect.

What can you tell me about your job?

     I am the Executive Director of the Alzheimer’s Project in Tallahassee. As such, I make sure our organization has the expertise, funding, and structure to carry out our mission. Our staff and volunteers provide services across the Big Bend area for people with memory disorders and their caregivers. The biggest reward is the sound of relief in a caregiver’s voice when they talk to someone who respectfully listens and can help them. This job has a direct impact on my community. I would also encourage readers to donate or be a volunteer.

How do you handle the most difficult conversations?

     When feelings are rooted in experience it leads to understanding, especially when the context is sitting right in front of me. I bridge the chasm of differing beliefs by considering each other’s worldviews and how they were formed. We may respectfully agree to disagree, but never let opinions get in the way of a friendship or a willingness to help in a time of need.

Could you talk about Tallahassee and how you feel about travel?

     Here in Tallahassee there is genuine hospitality, and everyone can feel like a local. It has a relaxing pace and such beauty in the hills, trees, and moss. One place I’d like to go again is Scotland. I also hope to someday visit my grandfather’s birthplace and hometown in Italy.

What activities bring out your deepest passion or enthusiasm?

     Golf would be the biggest one. I love the game and going to different courses, some of which are world class. And, by the way, on November 2nd there will be a gold fundraiser for the Alzheimer’s Project. It is called the “Cliff Hinkle Round to Remember”. Other than golf, I enjoy fishing and bird hunting. I’m not overly creative but do get creative when trying to solve problems. I listen to music every day and get an energy from it. Art inspires me by the depth to which it can take me into the subject. Food is a group activity that’s best when shared with good company. Of course, relaxing at home with my wife Beth Anne and our schnauzer Gus is often the best way to recharge.

Always be willing to help others.

What is the most fun thing you have ever done?

     Big family trips watching nieces and nephews discover new things. If you ever let fear prevent you from trying something, watch a child water or snow ski for the first time. We should all be that fearless.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     I don’t know that I am. On the negative side I will get excitable when a referee makes a bad call, or you try to take my dessert away from me. But seriously, on the positive side I experience the greatest joy through time well spent and seeing people at their best.

What is your message to the world?

      Pick your battles carefully because some hills are not big enough to fight for or to die on. Always be willing to help others. Always be willing to ask for and accept help. Have the courage and respect to learn new cultures and grace when practicing your own. 

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John Trombetta is the epitome of charm, confidence, and executive presence. Dang y’all, maybe I should start a fan club for him. Well, I certainly hope you enjoyed this article. I ask that you please leave a kind comment for all to see.  Thank you. 

“Gumbeaux Love” book review

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Gumbeaux Love by Jax Frey allows the lucky reader to feel transported to the lovely little town of Covington, Louisiana. There the search for meaningful relationships takes many colorful roads. This charming story of five lady friends includes life lessons (some sad, some sweet), love lessons (even a love workshop), and cooking lessons (gumbo, of course).

You will learn the answers to these burning questions: 1. Who believes in napkin-stealing leprechauns, 2. Who had a Mason jar in her purse, 3. Who should name her garbage can “Spot”,     and 4. What surprises really happened at the Trahan party?!

By the time you finish this fabulous book, you will have gained an entirely new perspective on food, art, music, dogs, dating, and “friendship benches”. Then you must decide whether you agree with the book’s statement that love is the greatest aspect of human life.

You can find Jax Frey on Facebook and Gumbeaux Love on Amazon Prime. ENJOY !!!

Meet Shari Hubbard: To Feed and Inform

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She finds great joy in helping to feed her community. She finds a feasible framework for informative conversations about hunger. She finds flexibility is an important approach to both her life and her work.  She finds wonderful ways to feed her body, mind, and spirit. She finds respect in helping others reach their full potential.

I help feed the hungry.

What is the nature of your job?

     My title is Director of Communications at Second Harvest of the Big Bend. I help inform and engage stakeholders regarding issues on food insecurity. I get to help our food bank make a tangible difference for vulnerable and underserved citizens. I get to show people how they can generously help their neighbors. I get to know that, in my own small way, I help feed hungry families and children. All of us work as a team, inspiring each other, toward our mission to supply healthy and nutritious food.

What makes your town a great travel destination?

     Tallahassee has so many wonderful events and attractions. Parks, greenways, restaurants, museums, festivals, concerts…the list goes on forever. People should enjoy places like Cascades Park, Goodwood Museum, Mission San Luis, and the fantastic local libraries. Of course, we have great sports events here, too. I had a blast attending FSU’s first national championship game.

Don’t you have some background in travel?

     Yes, before working with nonprofits I traveled many places in destination marketing. I love Maine, California, Colorado, as well as the Blue Ridge and Appalachian Mountains.  Places high on my bucket list include Alaska, Montana, Wyoming, and the Greek Isles. I plan to return to Scotland to explore my Scottish heritage. Oh, and eating my way through Tuscany was a particularly fun adventure.

Be intentional in your kindness.

Which are you more passionate about: art, food, or music?

     That’s a hard choice! I grow my own herbs. I love to cook and develop my own unique dishes. I’m not artistic but do appreciate all forms of art. Collecting art from my travels is a great way to remember an experience. I love live music. My first-ever arena concert was Bruce Springsteen on the “Born in the U.S.A.” tour. Recently I took my teenage son to his first concert, Imagine Dragons. What an amazing time that I know we’ll both remember forever!

What relaxing activities do you most enjoy?

     Walking a trail by a “cathedral of trees” is great exercise and where I get my best ideas. Being alone in nature clears the mind and leaves me calm. I also very much enjoy reading. Spending time with my chosen family of smart and supportive friends is dear to me. So is my faithful companion, a miniature Australian Shepherd named Rudy Lu Wigglebottom.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     Anticipation! Looking forward to a grand adventure or a sweet conversation with friends. I   try to listen respectfully with an open heart and mind. To find common ground and understand others is so important.

What is your key message for the world?

     Be intentional in your kindness toward others. You will never regret a kindness.

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Dang y’all, Shari Hubbard is a sparkling ray of sunshine in Tallahassee.  She brings a deep sense of value and purpose to her role of helping feed the hungry with Second Harvest. She is smart, kind, and could have a meaningful conversation with anyone.    

I truly urge YOU, dear reader, to leave your comments.

Meet Janis David: Modern Day Renaissance Woman

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She is always eager to learn, to grow, and to enjoy good company. Nature, animals, and all people are treated with compassion and acceptance by her. She is simultaneously calming and exciting, simple and complicated.

Could you tell the readers what you do?

      I am an author of stories and books. I am an instructor of Qigong and Belly Dance, and a sensuality coach. Not long ago I owned and sold a computer software company and I still do a little work in real estate. Because I made some sound investments years ago, now at age 65 I am free to be my own boss and live in my own style.

Escapades of a Belly Dancer (vol.1 & vol.2)

What are your best qualities?

     I bring a unique perspective of energy, sensuality, and creative expression to all that I do. I put feelings into words and actions that some cannot understand, and many cannot describe. I am an existential empath who is self-actualized.

Could you talk about where you have lived and traveled?

     I previously lived in New York, California, Hawaii, New Mexico, and Utah. I have now lived in Florida for 23 years. Where I live in Crawfordville is about 18 miles south of Tallahassee and filled with natural beauty. My property is peaceful and calming, close to rivers, springs, and beaches. I have visited Italy, Australia, and England. If I ever do travel again, I’d like to see Africa. But I’m happy right here, right now.

Which are you most passionate about: art, food, or music?

     That’s difficult since they are all part of my passion for life. I love food and cooking for friends. I cook using food as medicine. I am an artist. I am a dancer who moves to music.

I’m also an artist and dancer.

What activities do you find most fun or relaxing?

     Nature’s negative ions help to mellow me out and expand my sensuality. I have a medical marijuana license and find that ingesting THC stimulates creativity. Watering my gardens and exercising are great. I also find photography, weaving, painting, and drawing very relaxing. The most fun ever was an Essence of Being seminar during which I walked on both hot coals and broken glass, and I also flew through the air on a cable. All of that was empowering and I proved to myself that I could do it.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     Mainly it is my zest for life and freedom from guilt. I like who I am, a strong and confident Scorpio. I have unconditional love for all people and animals.

What is your message to the world?

     We are all one. We need to recognize and repair racial disparities. We all have the right to believe in our God of choice since it is all the same and we just use different names.

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Dang y’all! I hope you found Janis just as fascinating as I did. What did you find to be the most surprising or interesting part of the interview? What would you ask her? Please, take a moment to leave your questions and kind comments.

 

Meet Sean Wyman: Policeman Promoting Positivity

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Overcoming adversity to become someone better has been a recurring theme in his life. As a   boy he survived childhood trauma. As a teen he survived alcohol addiction. As a 5’6” man he became a fearless Army Ranger. Against seemingly insurmountable odds he has graduated from college, become a police officer, public speaker, and best-selling author. Sean Wyman also found a deep faith that helped him become a better husband and father. The following excerpts from our recent interview further explain how his current passions do positively and proactively improve the lives of police officers and countless others.

I am becoming the best version of myself.

Could you tell me a little about your job?

     I’ve been a police officer about twenty years. I love people and it is rewarding to serve those who need my help. I earn the respect of my community by gaining their trust. Every day brings new opportunities to make a difference.

What are your thoughts on Tallahassee and on travel?

     Florida’s capital city is a great place for education with two major universities. Also, a good place for opportunity and raising a family. I would like to revisit Italy and to see Australia for the first time. A favorite travel memory was when my new wife and I spent a fun week in Key West for our honeymoon.

What activities do you find most relaxing?           

     Spending time at the beach and playing baseball with my son are both huge stress relievers for me. So is cheering on my daughter as she does swimming, gymnastics, and softball. I do sometimes cook with my wife and I love to eat.

Would you explain the passion and purpose that drives your life?

     I was on a journey to get past trauma and find courage to face my fears. Divine intervention helped me move forward toward a better life. My first book Let Go: The Movement Process was published in 2016. It helped me work through aggression and anger. God’s grace helped me understand love and healthier ways to interact with others. I found a deep need to advocate for the mental health needs of police officers and others who deal with public safety.  My second book Going Beyond the Call: Mental Health Fitness for Public Safety Professionals was co-authored with Deirdre von Krauskopf and published in 2019.

Why is this so important to you?

     There is a high suicide rate among first responders. This is the start of a courageous conversation that needs to happen. Trauma-informed care and training is important to help us look at our own past, our own survival skills and coping mechanisms, our own process of healing. We must first be able to understand our own pain and be willing to ask for help. Only then will we be better equipped to help promote functional mental health in others.

I help people survive and thrive.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     Well, I am not anything special, but I just have a lot of energy. I am a rational and positive person who is not afraid to talk to anyone. I want to keep becoming the best version of myself while I help reduce suicides and help people survive and thrive.

What is your message to the world?

     Be prepared and don’t put off working on your own mental and physical health. Preparation leads to preservation while procrastination leads to devastation.

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Sean Wyman is quite humble. In February 2020, he received the “Back the Blue” award as Florida Attorney General Ashley Moody thanked him for his work with first responders and mental health.  Dang y’all, I’d say that makes him extraordinary!  What do YOU think?  Your comments will be welcomed and appreciated.

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