Meet Sean Wyman: Policeman Promoting Positivity

Overcoming adversity to become someone better has been a recurring theme in his life. As a   boy he survived childhood trauma. As a teen he survived alcohol addiction. As a 5’6” man he became a fearless Army Ranger. Against seemingly insurmountable odds he has graduated from college, become a police officer, public speaker, and best-selling author. Sean Wyman also found a deep faith that helped him become a better husband and father. The following excerpts from our recent interview further explain how his current passions do positively and proactively improve the lives of police officers and countless others.

I am becoming the best version of myself.

Could you tell me a little about your job?

     I’ve been a police officer about twenty years. I love people and it is rewarding to serve those who need my help. I earn the respect of my community by gaining their trust. Every day brings new opportunities to make a difference.

What are your thoughts on Tallahassee and on travel?

     Florida’s capital city is a great place for education with two major universities. Also, a good place for opportunity and raising a family. I would like to revisit Italy and to see Australia for the first time. A favorite travel memory was when my new wife and I spent a fun week in Key West for our honeymoon.

What activities do you find most relaxing?           

     Spending time at the beach and playing baseball with my son are both huge stress relievers for me. So is cheering on my daughter as she does swimming, gymnastics, and softball. I do sometimes cook with my wife and I love to eat.

Would you explain the passion and purpose that drives your life?

     I was on a journey to get past trauma and find courage to face my fears. Divine intervention helped me move forward toward a better life. My first book Let Go: The Movement Process was published in 2016. It helped me work through aggression and anger. God’s grace helped me understand love and healthier ways to interact with others. I found a deep need to advocate for the mental health needs of police officers and others who deal with public safety.  My second book Going Beyond the Call: Mental Health Fitness for Public Safety Professionals was co-authored with Deirdre von Krauskopf and published in 2019.

Why is this so important to you?

     There is a high suicide rate among first responders. This is the start of a courageous conversation that needs to happen. Trauma-informed care and training is important to help us look at our own past, our own survival skills and coping mechanisms, our own process of healing. We must first be able to understand our own pain and be willing to ask for help. Only then will we be better equipped to help promote functional mental health in others.

I help people survive and thrive.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     Well, I am not anything special, but I just have a lot of energy. I am a rational and positive person who is not afraid to talk to anyone. I want to keep becoming the best version of myself while I help reduce suicides and help people survive and thrive.

What is your message to the world?

     Be prepared and don’t put off working on your own mental and physical health. Preparation leads to preservation while procrastination leads to devastation.

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Sean Wyman is quite humble. In February 2020, he received the “Back the Blue” award as Florida Attorney General Ashley Moody thanked him for his work with first responders and mental health.  Dang y’all, I’d say that makes him extraordinary!  What do YOU think?  Your comments will be welcomed and appreciated.

Meet Michelle Bono: A Champion for Challenges

Show heart… share value.

She has helped organize a flash mob. She has helped organize a funeral for a tree. She has helped groups of leaders, mentors, government workers, and many others find deeper value in sharing their own stories. She has helped countless individuals learn from taking a risk and doing things that had never been done before.

What is the essence of your job?

     What I do, and teach others to do, is help people communicate better or become a stronger part of a team. My role is to bring opposing sides together when they’ve been going crazy over some challenging crisis with complex issues. I help them show heart and use real words. I help them see value and know that their opinions have been heard. Then they make difficult decisions and gain deep satisfaction by being part of a positive change.    

What are some rewards of your work?

     By being a good listener and helping others build trusting relationships, I have earned respect and a good reputation. I get to champion projects which I personally support.

Do you think Tallahassee is a great travel destination?

     Yes! Tallahassee is absolutely the prettiest slice of heaven. The many waterways for kayaking, the parks and canopy roads for greenery.  It is a wonderful area for families and for retirement; I highly recommend viewing the website ChooseTallahassee.com for tons of helpful information.

Any other places you have been or that are on your bucket list?

     Epinal, France was a great experience. So were Italy and Ireland. Also, my family and I attended an unusual New Year’s Even event in North Carolina called the Possum Drop in which a possum in a plexiglass cage was lowered at midnight. The trip at the top of my bucket list is a Viking river cruise from Amsterdam to Budapest.

Learn from every good challenge.

What other fun activities do you enjoy?

     My family and I love exploring and having adventures. We have snorkeled with manatees, made peach ice cream, and had epic sing-alongs in the car. We are very blessed to enjoy family card games, board games, and playing piano. I have fallen in love with pickleball, which is a fun and competitive sport a bit like tennis. I am fairly competitive, not for the win, but for the natural high and the thrill.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     I am an optimist with an open heart. I am the happy, and perhaps slightly naïve, woman who will whistle while walking through a cemetery. I avoid using bad language because it just is not necessary. I learn something from every good challenge, and I know without a doubt that tomorrow will always be better.

What is your positive message for the world?

     God’s got this! You and I have got this! Please try to take a deep breath because things will improve, and we will be okay.

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Michelle Bono is quite an inspiring lady. Please share YOUR comments about this interview because, dang y’all, this is truly a time when caring means sharing.  Thank you!

Meet Tallahassee Mayor John Dailey

Seriousness Fused with Fun

As I walked into the elevator at City Hall, I was both nervous and excited in anticipation of my first meeting with the mayor. Would he be pompous or subdued? Would he be phony or inept? It turns out that he is none of those things! In fact, we chatted so comfortably in his office. I felt honored. I felt proud. I felt patriotic. John Dailey is a good man who has a strong commitment to the great future of Tallahassee.

What is a clear and simple way to explain your job?

       My job as Mayor is to be sure that our municipal services are doing all we can to improve the quality of life for all residents of Florida’s state capital.

How do you feel about your job?

       It is very rewarding to truly be able to help solve the problems and concerns of citizens. Every day is completely different and has a mix of seriousness and fun. I appreciate those I work with and the wide variety of local people that I am privileged to meet. I am aware of my own deficiencies and my great team is always ready and willing to assist.  

I listen with unconditional respect.

How do you handle the difficult parts of your position?

       I listen to all people with unconditional respect. I know that respect can move mountains and bring about transformational change.  

How do you feel about Tallahassee?

       I grew up here and really love it. I attended FSU and love Seminoles football. Tallahassee is unique and fun and has so much natural beauty.   It is the seventh largest municipality in Florida, yet still has an excellent small-town charm. It is a great place for education and also a premiere retirement destination.

Could you say a little about other travel destinations you have seen or would like to see?

        I have had great times in London and in Costa Rica. I have backpacked across Ethiopia and climbed Mount Kilimanjaro. Eventually I hope to travel to all seven continents.

Are you passionate about any particular activities or hobbies?

       Food, art, and music are important to me because they fuel the mind, body, and spirit. My wife is from Louisiana and has introduced me to lots of great Cajun food. For physical activity I like hiking or playing squash. Reading helps me to relax. I also love to play Legos with my two sons.

Mayor John Dailey and writer Angela Dowdy

What makes you an exuberant person?

       I have a good philosophy of life. It is crucial to pay serious attention to the important things. It is even more necessary to stay upbeat and positive. And it is absolutely essential to have fun.

Do you have any message that the world needs to hear?

       Yes! Let’s all take a deep breath, stay calm, and smile. These are unusual times, but we are all going to make it through this together.

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Mayor John Dailey of Tallahassee is everything a man should be. He loves his family, his job, his town, and his constituents.  He knows how to mix seriousness and fun. He is very approachable. He knows how to make a positive and lasting impression.

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