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A good leader is confident, knowledgeable, and inspiring. I call that being easy on the mind. A good leader can explain the mission of his organization with clarity and credibility. I call that being easy on the ears. A good leader will speak lovingly of his job, his wife, his dog, his hobbies, and his alma mater. I call that being easy on the heart. A good leader has features which are appealing and approachable. I call that being easy on the eyes. I am a big fan of John Trombetta, since he is the best and most shining example of a good leader on all counts.  

What can you tell me about your job?

     I am the Executive Director of the Alzheimer’s Project in Tallahassee. As such, I make sure our organization has the expertise, funding, and structure to carry out our mission. Our staff and volunteers provide services across the Big Bend area for people with memory disorders and their caregivers. The biggest reward is the sound of relief in a caregiver’s voice when they talk to someone who respectfully listens and can help them. This job has a direct impact on my community. I would also encourage readers to donate or be a volunteer.

How do you handle the most difficult conversations?

     When feelings are rooted in experience it leads to understanding, especially when the context is sitting right in front of me. I bridge the chasm of differing beliefs by considering each other’s worldviews and how they were formed. We may respectfully agree to disagree, but never let opinions get in the way of a friendship or a willingness to help in a time of need.

Could you talk about Tallahassee and how you feel about travel?

     Here in Tallahassee there is genuine hospitality, and everyone can feel like a local. It has a relaxing pace and such beauty in the hills, trees, and moss. One place I’d like to go again is Scotland. I also hope to someday visit my grandfather’s birthplace and hometown in Italy.

What activities bring out your deepest passion or enthusiasm?

     Golf would be the biggest one. I love the game and going to different courses, some of which are world class. And, by the way, on November 2^nd there will be a gold fundraiser for the Alzheimer’s Project. It is called the “Cliff Hinkle Round to Remember”. Other than golf, I enjoy fishing and bird hunting. I’m not overly creative but do get creative when trying to solve problems. I listen to music every day and get an energy from it. Art inspires me by the depth to which it can take me into the subject. Food is a group activity that’s best when shared with good company. Of course, relaxing at home with my wife Beth Anne and our schnauzer Gus is often the best way to recharge.

What is the most fun thing you have ever done?

     Big family trips watching nieces and nephews discover new things. If you ever let fear prevent you from trying something, watch a child water or snow ski for the first time. We should all be that fearless.

What makes you an exuberant person?

     I don’t know that I am. On the negative side I will get excitable when a referee makes a bad call, or you try to take my dessert away from me. But seriously, on the positive side I experience the greatest joy through time well spent and seeing people at their best.

What is your message to the world?

      Pick your battles carefully because some hills are not big enough to fight for or to die on. Always be willing to help others. Always be willing to ask for and accept help. Have the courage and respect to learn new cultures and grace when practicing your own. 

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John Trombetta is the epitome of charm, confidence, and executive presence. Dang y’all, maybe I should start a fan club for him. Well, I certainly hope you enjoyed this article. I ask that you please leave a kind comment for all to see.  Thank you.