Grateful Strife of Goat Life

Perfectly clean white goats dance and play as soft southern winds kiss the morning sunshine. The world is right both day and night, goats never get sick, and they never fight. The goat farmer sits leisurely with nothing to do, fairies and pixies magically do everything!

WRONG! Wake up, because you are obviously dreaming! Goat life involves grateful strife.

The TRUTH is that goat farming, milking, and making soft goat cheese is hard work. The farmer and his wife must get up at the crack of dawn. They must constantly be cleaning the living space, providing fresh food and fresh water, checking for problems with hooves and horns, and for any indication of bloating or parasites.

Additionally, they must keep the area free from predators. The farmer, family, and any staff must know when and how to breed and milk the goats. They must maintain the creamery and follow exacting procedures for refrigeration and cheese making. There must be a reliable system in place for packaging and marketing the finished product. They will often work late into the night, fall into bed exhausted, and repeat the entire process day after day.

Nick & Allison Murray and their children Audrey and Nate.

What type of people would purposely choose this grateful strife of goat life? Nick and Allison Murray at Grateful Hill Farm in Pavo, Georgia have the answer. So, he was a corporate insurance man who was seemingly stuck on the hamster wheel just a few years ago. His wife was an English teacher. They desired to ditch the rat race and find a better path for their family. Here are excerpts from my recent interview with Nick.

Milking six goats at the time is a full time job.

What can you tell me about your work?

     Grateful Hill Farm is 14 acres of passion, positivity, and productivity. We raise the Saanen breed of goats, milk them, and make cheese from the milk. The farm allows us to enjoy nature while we work together as a family to create several varieties of our tasty product.

Cheese making is part art and part science.

How many animals do you have?  

     There are 22 milking goats in the herd, plus another 19 kids not yet of milking age. To help protect them from predators like coyotes and foxes, we also have two adorable llamas and two beautiful Doberman Pinschers. Plus, a cat or two just for the heck of it.

Can you educate me a bit about goat cheese?

     Soft fresh goat cheese is called chevre (pronounced “shev”). We follow a primal ancient process that results in better flavor than most modern offerings. Using natural animal rennet, we hand craft artisanal cheese that is rich in protein, easily digestible, and delicious.

“Orange Blossom Special” , “Farmgirl Dip” , & “Southern Hospitality” ! Oh my!

Is sustainability a factor at your farm?

     Absolutely. I am a natural minded businessman. I focus on quality work and not cutting corners. It is so important that I insist that we use natural resources and natural supplements as much as possible. The indigenous grass, vines, weeds, and berries that the goats browse upon add unique flavor and quality to the cheese. Allison and I love teaching our children to take care of the land and to appreciate the value of purposeful work. I pray that they will be able to pass that knowledge forward to future generations.

Pretty as a picture and go good for you! Soft fresh goat cheese!

{ Grateful Hill Farm produces four varieties of chevre plus a feta now and then. The four flavors are Cotton Cloud, Orange Blossom Special, Farmgirl Dip, and this writer’s favorite one is called Southern Hospitality and has sweetened pineapple and pecans. Dang y’all ! So delicious. I also recommend adding just a tiny amount of honey and cinnamon to any of the flavors for a total bite of bliss. You will love it! Chevre is so healthy and gluten-free. }

Learning and loving more every day.

Would you call your goat life something of a love story?

     Yes. It is hard work that is rewarding and remarkably precious to us. We learn new things every day. We continue to grow closer to God and to each other. This path is teaching us to communicate better and to love the land, the animals, and each other noticeably more deeply.

What activities do you like for fun or creativity?

     Thinking and planning early each morning at my desk sparks my creativity. Running is something I find meditative. It is good for my body and improves my mood. The most fun I ever had was attending the Telluride Bluegrass Festival. I’ve also been to the Greek Island of Mykonos. My bucket list item is to someday take a family vacation to the Italian Alps. We are blessed to have lots of extended family close by, so time with them is lots of fun.

Do you have a message for the world?

     Yes, and this is simple yet extremely important. Husbands and fathers should strive toward making their family relationships the best possible.

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Dang, y’all… Nick Murray and his family are beautiful on many levels! It was a true joy to visit with them and get to know more about chevre. He would be happy to answer your questions, if you are considering the grateful strife of goat life for yourself. If you would like find out more, please see their website https://www.gratefulhillfarm.com/ .

See my Instagram https://www.instagram.com/embracesouthernstates/ and for Grateful Hill Farm Instagram https://www.instagram.com/gratefulhillfarm/

Gloria Darling Empowers Aging Divas

An aging diva is a woman “of a certain age”, but what on earth does that even mean in today’s world? There was a time when it meant that she was past her prime and no longer active or vibrant. She certainly would have lost all interest in laughing, having fun, or having the courage to go out on a date.

Thank goodness for Gloria Darling. She is a Milestone Diva who pours her heart into helping women celebrate their life and find their voice. She seeks to use a little tough love while reminding them that they are still relevant and still deserve to pursue their dreams and passions, at any age. She inspires the older and bolder ladies to be loud and proud!

Could you please tell us a bit about your background?

   My birthplace was the Bahamas, and I grew up in Miami, Florida. I have lived in Tallahassee for almost 24 years. I am a black woman in my sassy 60s. I have three sons, one grandson, and two great-grandchildren. I will soon be retiring from my full-time job and be free to focus more attention on “The Cup of Glo”.

What is “The Cup of Glo”?

   It is my new project that I started in March (2020), a podcast ( https://cupofglo.com ) in which I interview other Milestone Diva ladies over age 50 who are learning to embrace their unique power. That means that they manifest confidence, boldness, enthusiasm, playfulness, and wisdom. They have been able to discover their talents and abilities and are able to share those in wonderful ways.

   Taking this podcast idea, developing every nuance and bringing it to life has been such an exciting creative journey. I don’t have enough words to describe my enthusiasm for this labor of love.

Would you explain this idea of Milestone Divas?

   This simply means they have reached a new and wonderful age: Feisty 50s, Sassy 60s, Saucy 70s, Exciting 80s, Nifty 90s, or Awesome 100s. We even have a Milestone Diva cheer:  

Feisty, Sassy, Saucy are we

Exciting, Nifty and Awesome you see

Every second, minute or hour

Bold, wise owning our power,

In tees and jeans or a fancy frock

Milestone Divas Rock!

It is obvious that you really love Milestone Divas. I’ve also heard that you dearly love Tallahassee. What do you cherish most about Tallahassee?

   The feeling of a kind and caring small town where community and natural beauty are appreciated. We are blessed with so many amazing parks where one can be as active or as relaxed as they choose, while also enjoying the enormous old oak trees, Spanish moss, and countless types of flowering plants.

   There are so many opportunities for folks to meet, get to know one another, and develop meaningful friendships. Just look online to find a meet-up group for any number of interests, then jump in and get involved. You merely have to take that first step and connect with like-minded individuals to meet, talk, eat, sing, dance, or whatever matches the desires of your heart.

What travel destinations have you visited or plan to visit?

   One of the best road trips of my life was going with a group of belly dance buddies to Asheville, North Carolina. We stayed in cabins and met another group there who were involved in Renaissance fair activities. We enjoyed workshops and shopping and excellent fellowship. It was a much-needed diversion and a perfect sense of release.

   An area I love and would definitely visit again is the Pacific Northwest. The towns of Portland and Astoria in Oregon and the town of Seattle, Washington are simply gorgeous and fascinating.  There are several places I would eventually like to visit and the one place which is currently at the top of my bucket list would be Spain.

What are some of your passions and hobbies?

   Where do I even start? I love music and art. I love food with flair. That could mean using tips I got from some TV cooking show, or just trying to add more color to a simple family meal. For example, start with oxtails and cabbage. Then add peas, carrots, and rice. Heck, throw in some seafood to really make it pop.

   I am active in a dance troupe. We do many types of dance including belly dance, hula, tribal, and flamenco. At times when I take a short break from dancing, I will occasionally play the frame drum in a band which accompanies the belly dancers.

   For about the past five years I have been active in Toastmasters, an organization that helps people develop public speaking and leadership skills. I have competed and won several contests at their club, area, and district levels.

What makes you an exuberant person?

   Life gives me a choice. I can focus on pain and sadness or I can focus on enthusiasm and joy. I have made the choice… I choose ENTHUSIASM and JOY!  I am fun, happy, and liberated. I can get tough when I need to help others, but I’m still respectable and authentic. I am a servant leader who is comfortable discussing any topic with any person. I place a high value on honesty and on friendship.

Do you have a message for the world?

   Celebrate!  Celebrate everything! Celebrate yourself by learning to claim your power at any age. Celebrate the things that you have, such as friendships and hobbies. Celebrate all the beauty that can be seen around you. Celebrate every little moment of fun, freedom, love, and joy. Celebrate LIFE!

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When this writer first met Gloria, I knew I had just made a wonderful new friend. We sat out on the deck of a coffee shop chatting contentedly, until a sudden downpour forced us to finish the conversation in my car. That did nothing to dampen our spirits. We have a shared value of curiosity and communication.

Gloria Darling thrives on serving people. She finds deep joy in helping older women find and use their voice and their power. https://cupofglo.com/

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